Ageism in Society Hurts

My complaint is that our society is ageist and doesn't respect or appreciate the elderly.

Whenever someone hears that I am time challenged because I'm caring for my elderly parent plus working full time, they usually start blaming the parent rather than my job when it's just the opposite--the job is overly demanding whereas my parent is not and cannot help it if they are old and sick.

I resent this ageist attitude. I have a coworker whose sibling recently passed away from cancer and OMG, you should have seen the outpouring of sympathy that she received. Yet no one at my job is sympathetic about my elderly parent's health issues and rarely show any interest in my concerns.

The attitude is "well, what do you expect for someone who is 85 years old? They lived a good life, didn't they?" Or "isn't it time for a nursing home?" And they still ask me if I did anything fun over the weekend, like, DUH, do you have any clue what care giving is all about? I have come to realize that the attitude out there is ageist. Does anyone else have any comments on the ageist attitude?


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Ageism In Society - Bookshelf

Ageism, stereotyping and prejudice against older persons

Ageism, stereotyping and prejudice against older persons

Current findings on the origins and effects of ageism, as well as ways to reduce it.

Aging, ageism, and society

Aging, ageism, and society

Ageism is a destructive force for both society and the individual. against the other. Communicating and understanding across generations are difficult when ...

Aging, Society, and the Life Course

Aging, Society, and the Life Course

Ageism is alive and well in US society. Reflecting on his 30 years of research on this topic, gerontologist Erdman Palmore (2005) expressed optimism that ...

Handbook of the Sociology of Aging

Handbook of the Sociology of Aging

Research in needed on: Theorizing the aging society, ageism, and crisis • Globalization, state theory, and social rights • Social inequality and social ...

Sex May Be Wasted on the Young

Sex May Be Wasted on the Young

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Ageism
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Ageism: An Introduction
Examines such issues as gender and ageism, psychology, and the relationship of ageism to self-concept.

Ageism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Ageism in common parlance and age studies usually refers to negative ... Stereotyping and prejudice against different groups in society does not take the same form. ...

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Ageism information from NAAS
Ageism in America (ILCUSA; updated 2006) Ageism, Gravity, and Gender: Experiences of ... Ageism: How Healthcare Fails the Elderly (AgingResearch; 2003) Fighting Ageism in ...